One other note: I'm assuming you aren't on birth control, right?
Be sure to use a condom next time you have sex, so you don't have to go through this agony and worry!
You said your boyfriend had some "pre-cum" a little, but that is actually ejaculation that you saw. "Pre-cum" or "pre-ejaculatory fluid" isn't something you notice coming out once he's excited. Pre-ejaculatory fluid is actually present on the tip of a man's penis when he first has an erection, and is just a few drops that sit on the penis (you won't see it "coming out"). Anything that is "coming out"...no matter the amount..is ejaculatory fluid and men can control this sometimes, and stop it before it gets to be too much, to then ejaculate again.
Does that make sense?
It's important to know the differences, because many women don't realize the "pre-cum" can be present when there is an erect penis, and does not matter if there has been stimulation or not. Pre-cum may contain sperm, so even inserting the tip of the penis way before any chance of ejaculation is still considered a moderate risk for pregnancy (due to the possible presence of semen in the "pre-cum" on the tip of the penis).
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One other note: I'm assuming you aren't on birth control, right?
Be sure to use a condom next time you have sex, so you don't have to go through this agony and worry!
You said your boyfriend had some "pre-cum" a little, but that is actually ejaculation that you saw. "Pre-cum" or "pre-ejaculatory fluid" isn't something you notice coming out once he's excited. Pre-ejaculatory fluid is actually present on the tip of a man's penis when he first has an erection, and is just a few drops that sit on the penis (you won't see it "coming out"). Anything that is "coming out"...no matter the amount..is ejaculatory fluid and men can control this sometimes, and stop it before it gets to be too much, to then ejaculate again.
Does that make sense?
It's important to know the differences, because many women don't realize the "pre-cum" can be present when there is an erect penis, and does not matter if there has been stimulation or not. Pre-cum may contain sperm, so even inserting the tip of the penis way before any chance of ejaculation is still considered a moderate risk for pregnancy (due to the possible presence of semen in the "pre-cum" on the tip of the penis).
November 5, 2009 - 1:17pmThis Comment
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