We all have different styles, but if it were me, here is what I would do. I would find a time when both of us seem to be in a good mood (but not in the bedroom), and I would bring it up. I would probably say, "Can we talk about something private?" And when he says "sure," I'd say "well, I'm a little embarrassed about it," and I'd wait for him to say something. He'll probably say something like, "don't be embarrassed," or "tell me, what?" And then just say it. Say, "I love the fact that you listened to me and went shopping for a sex toy, but it's too big for me and it makes me uncomfortable, and I haven't been sure how to tell you that without hurting your feelings." And see where it goes from there?
Does that have any possibility of success for you?
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Anon,
Thank you for the clarification. It helps a lot.
We all have different styles, but if it were me, here is what I would do. I would find a time when both of us seem to be in a good mood (but not in the bedroom), and I would bring it up. I would probably say, "Can we talk about something private?" And when he says "sure," I'd say "well, I'm a little embarrassed about it," and I'd wait for him to say something. He'll probably say something like, "don't be embarrassed," or "tell me, what?" And then just say it. Say, "I love the fact that you listened to me and went shopping for a sex toy, but it's too big for me and it makes me uncomfortable, and I haven't been sure how to tell you that without hurting your feelings." And see where it goes from there?
Does that have any possibility of success for you?
November 24, 2009 - 9:49amThis Comment
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