I too am having the same problem I have been with my boyfriend for a year now, and I can't help but feel like he's losing interest in me. I'm 19 I have a child live on my own and work 60+ hours a week. He is a full time student and goes to school 2 and a half hours away, making it so I rarely see him. He does come home on breaks for weeks at a time and we aren't intimate at all. I am the only person he has ever been with and we use to have sex all the time and lately its been about once a month. I wonder if its just that he's not attracted to me anymore but he says that that's not it, he says "he's scared of getting me pregnant" why would this happen all of a sudden our sex life use to be great and now we don't have one. Should I be worried that he's not ready to make a long term commitment to me and that he's not ready for maturing like I am because I already have a child? Its so sudden I can't understand why he would all of a sudden change like this after a year. It kills me inside because we are not what we used to be he doesn't find my jokes funny anymore and we don't spend as much time together as we use to he doesn't even look at me the same he says nothings changed but I can't help but feel like he's lying to me after all its not my fault I feel this way, am I wrong?
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I too am having the same problem I have been with my boyfriend for a year now, and I can't help but feel like he's losing interest in me. I'm 19 I have a child live on my own and work 60+ hours a week. He is a full time student and goes to school 2 and a half hours away, making it so I rarely see him. He does come home on breaks for weeks at a time and we aren't intimate at all. I am the only person he has ever been with and we use to have sex all the time and lately its been about once a month. I wonder if its just that he's not attracted to me anymore but he says that that's not it, he says "he's scared of getting me pregnant" why would this happen all of a sudden our sex life use to be great and now we don't have one. Should I be worried that he's not ready to make a long term commitment to me and that he's not ready for maturing like I am because I already have a child? Its so sudden I can't understand why he would all of a sudden change like this after a year. It kills me inside because we are not what we used to be he doesn't find my jokes funny anymore and we don't spend as much time together as we use to he doesn't even look at me the same he says nothings changed but I can't help but feel like he's lying to me after all its not my fault I feel this way, am I wrong?
January 6, 2012 - 4:15pmThis Comment
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