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I actually am just now having this issue with my bf. we have been dating for a little over a year now and he took my virginity away. Before, we would have sex once every other day. We both know I have a higher sex drive but it didn't really cause issues until recently. I was basically begging him to have sex with me these pasts couple of days and he said it was unattractive. We had an arguement yesterday about it ans i cried. He just didnt get that i need sex. When i go too long without sex its all i think avout when im qlone with mu bf. my body craves it and eventually i get really grumpy and irritable without it. I wish he hadn't tried so hard to get me to have sex in the first place when I was still a virgin because now I want it all the time and he doesn't. Sometimes he would rather masturbate Than have sex with me. What helped was I told him that I was going to stop having sex all together and gave him boundaries like he cant grab my butt or spoon with me, it gave me some power and made him want to rebel. We r also taking a few days to spend without each other so the pressure is gone. I'll see if that helps.