Hello ladies, I'm so glad I stumbled upon this page while researching on my latest life issue. Before reading your comments, I thought I was the only one with this issue. I'm 24 and my bf is 25. We have been dating for three and a half years. When we first started dating, he was definitely the best sex I had ever had!! We would go on for hours and simultaneously climax in one session. For the past two years, our sec life has completely gone down the drain. At first it led me to have an affair. I completely regret it every day of my life, but I did realize it was the absence of sex that pushed me over that edge. In he past two years, if we had sex 20 times, i might be exaggerating. Worse part is, in the past two years, he hasn't given me an orgasm. I started masturbating but lately it doesn't work. I yearn for the touch of a man and an orgasm given to me by someone other than my friendly vibrator. I have wet dreams constantly and I'm afraid to drink out of fear I will cheat again. Now I have tried being sexy, I've talked about it, Even the lingerie. But he always says he is tired or that he doesn't feel like it. However, I know h is constantly watching porn. We live together and I have even tried surprising him naked in the middle of the night and he chooses to get a bj instead. I feel unwanted and I've started to let myself go because I don't see the point in looking beautiful for Amanda who won't even touch me. Now 2 things... He is stuck on baby language and he thinks I'm perverted for constantly thinking about sex. I hate to rant about it but we have a wonderful relationship aside of the nonexistent sex life. I would hate to lose such a great guy cause of such a simple human instinct of sex. I'm so horny all the time!!! Help!! Anyone with years of experience have some advice??? I cry every time he says no to me.
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Hello ladies, I'm so glad I stumbled upon this page while researching on my latest life issue. Before reading your comments, I thought I was the only one with this issue. I'm 24 and my bf is 25. We have been dating for three and a half years. When we first started dating, he was definitely the best sex I had ever had!! We would go on for hours and simultaneously climax in one session. For the past two years, our sec life has completely gone down the drain. At first it led me to have an affair. I completely regret it every day of my life, but I did realize it was the absence of sex that pushed me over that edge. In he past two years, if we had sex 20 times, i might be exaggerating. Worse part is, in the past two years, he hasn't given me an orgasm. I started masturbating but lately it doesn't work. I yearn for the touch of a man and an orgasm given to me by someone other than my friendly vibrator. I have wet dreams constantly and I'm afraid to drink out of fear I will cheat again. Now I have tried being sexy, I've talked about it, Even the lingerie. But he always says he is tired or that he doesn't feel like it. However, I know h is constantly watching porn. We live together and I have even tried surprising him naked in the middle of the night and he chooses to get a bj instead. I feel unwanted and I've started to let myself go because I don't see the point in looking beautiful for Amanda who won't even touch me. Now 2 things... He is stuck on baby language and he thinks I'm perverted for constantly thinking about sex. I hate to rant about it but we have a wonderful relationship aside of the nonexistent sex life. I would hate to lose such a great guy cause of such a simple human instinct of sex. I'm so horny all the time!!! Help!! Anyone with years of experience have some advice??? I cry every time he says no to me.
October 4, 2013 - 10:28pmThis Comment
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