My bf and i have been together for 4 months now, everything happened so fast.. After 2-4 weeks of dating I moved in.. When we are happy it's like nothing else matters.. But when we do have an argument it's the worst especially with his short temper which takes hrs and sometimes days to cool off, occasionally he would say leave and then say lets work on it.. Many times he would use harsh words such as I am not happy or I don't think we are meant to be and then everything will go back on track... His excuse for saying those words is I was angry.. He works 7 days per a week, I totally understand it can get frustrated but can't understand y he doesn't want to have sex often.. Like we would do it once a week .. I make dinner everyday .. He's getting fat cause he's always over eating and then gets lazy.. Doesn't want to do anything.. Even sex.. He thinks sex isn't important...His excuse is i work 7 days I am tired or i over ate.. He. I am too full.. For example we were supposed to go to the movies, he ate dinner and got lazy.. I on the other hand rushed home to make dinner so we can have a night out .. We don't go anywhere since he work 7days.. I got upset because I was looking forward for movie night .. He got upset when I mentioned I rushed home after work to make dinner so we can go out.. His respond was don't cook for me no more.. He act as if I am throwing it in his face about cooking.. He's very immature with words and holds a grudge for the longest.. So he got upset and stormed out of the house.. Came back hrs later and wouldn't sleep next to me. The next day he was still showing attitude... I love and care for him a lot.. Btw I am 33 and he's 28.
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My bf and i have been together for 4 months now, everything happened so fast.. After 2-4 weeks of dating I moved in.. When we are happy it's like nothing else matters.. But when we do have an argument it's the worst especially with his short temper which takes hrs and sometimes days to cool off, occasionally he would say leave and then say lets work on it.. Many times he would use harsh words such as I am not happy or I don't think we are meant to be and then everything will go back on track... His excuse for saying those words is I was angry.. He works 7 days per a week, I totally understand it can get frustrated but can't understand y he doesn't want to have sex often.. Like we would do it once a week .. I make dinner everyday .. He's getting fat cause he's always over eating and then gets lazy.. Doesn't want to do anything.. Even sex.. He thinks sex isn't important...His excuse is i work 7 days I am tired or i over ate.. He. I am too full.. For example we were supposed to go to the movies, he ate dinner and got lazy.. I on the other hand rushed home to make dinner so we can have a night out .. We don't go anywhere since he work 7days.. I got upset because I was looking forward for movie night .. He got upset when I mentioned I rushed home after work to make dinner so we can go out.. His respond was don't cook for me no more.. He act as if I am throwing it in his face about cooking.. He's very immature with words and holds a grudge for the longest.. So he got upset and stormed out of the house.. Came back hrs later and wouldn't sleep next to me. The next day he was still showing attitude... I love and care for him a lot.. Btw I am 33 and he's 28.
November 12, 2014 - 3:39pmThis Comment
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