I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 months, at the start of the relationship we were having sex (of some sort) every day. Then about 2 months ago, that stopped completely. I get that that was the 'honeymoon period' that everyone goes through but now that he doesn't have sex with me I feel unwanted and hurt. We both suffer from depression and anxieties and this probably is the source of my problem and maybe what's causing it for him. We had a shower together a couple of times last week and he didn't get hard once. We don't live together but we spend a lot of time together. The emotional distancing however goes to him hardly ever spending time with me even when we're in the same house. He started going to the gym a lot and I understand that he would get tired from that but the sexual relationship is very important to me and I don't know what to do.
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I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 months, at the start of the relationship we were having sex (of some sort) every day. Then about 2 months ago, that stopped completely. I get that that was the 'honeymoon period' that everyone goes through but now that he doesn't have sex with me I feel unwanted and hurt. We both suffer from depression and anxieties and this probably is the source of my problem and maybe what's causing it for him. We had a shower together a couple of times last week and he didn't get hard once. We don't live together but we spend a lot of time together. The emotional distancing however goes to him hardly ever spending time with me even when we're in the same house. He started going to the gym a lot and I understand that he would get tired from that but the sexual relationship is very important to me and I don't know what to do.
November 16, 2014 - 3:59amThis Comment
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