Hi, I'm in the same situation. He and i have been together for 3 yrs now. Maybe this will help the ladies out here coz he and i discussed it plus i have a few other tips from my friends who have been in long term relationships (5+ years). To start it off, when men become more emotionally involved, they're less interested in sex. It's the opposite effect for women coz we tend to give more when the emotional connection gets stronger. This doesn't mean he finds u less attractive. Hractually loves u more when the sex goes down. I know, I get offended and hurt too so we both agreed to compromise coz after all "it takes 2 to tango." My friends also said that after a year (maybe months or more for some couples), you become more like the best of friends and then again the sex isn't at much. Lastly, and u may take offense to this, "men want what they can't have." I'm hypersexual ever since i became more emotionally involved with him, and the less he gives, the more i wanted it. I guess this applies to women as well. There are times when I don't feel like doing it, but i'd have to give in if he wants it coz who knows when he'll b horny again. I know it's hard, but we should resist temptation by any means and make them want us more. Men admit that they masturbate to other women (i hope it's just porn) even if they're in relationships. U can talk to him about it and say what offends u and what doesn't. This is a few stuff I've learned over the course of 3 yrs. Just be confident, make him chase u, and even if he turned u down for sex many many times - u're still the only woman for him coz he's with u.
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Hi, I'm in the same situation. He and i have been together for 3 yrs now. Maybe this will help the ladies out here coz he and i discussed it plus i have a few other tips from my friends who have been in long term relationships (5+ years). To start it off, when men become more emotionally involved, they're less interested in sex. It's the opposite effect for women coz we tend to give more when the emotional connection gets stronger. This doesn't mean he finds u less attractive. Hractually loves u more when the sex goes down. I know, I get offended and hurt too so we both agreed to compromise coz after all "it takes 2 to tango." My friends also said that after a year (maybe months or more for some couples), you become more like the best of friends and then again the sex isn't at much. Lastly, and u may take offense to this, "men want what they can't have." I'm hypersexual ever since i became more emotionally involved with him, and the less he gives, the more i wanted it. I guess this applies to women as well. There are times when I don't feel like doing it, but i'd have to give in if he wants it coz who knows when he'll b horny again. I know it's hard, but we should resist temptation by any means and make them want us more. Men admit that they masturbate to other women (i hope it's just porn) even if they're in relationships. U can talk to him about it and say what offends u and what doesn't. This is a few stuff I've learned over the course of 3 yrs. Just be confident, make him chase u, and even if he turned u down for sex many many times - u're still the only woman for him coz he's with u.
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