Before me and my boyfriend got together we talked all the time and he said he classed me as his gf, but then I found out he had sex with some girl on a pier (yes...) and kissed someone. We weren't officially together so I forgave him and ended up being with him for 4 years.
The sex was amazing within the first 5 months, then he started saying he was 'too tired' a lot and would find me more 'cute' than 'sexy' - I could be wearing stockings, suspenders, heels, it doesn't matter - he still say wouldn't be up for it. I used to get really upset about it but he'd be there for me and said uni work/work just made him tired.
I asked if he'd go the doctors cause it was really getting to me but he kept making excuses.
He basically really does love me emotionally (always wants to cuddle and talk) but mainly cares about himself and his career and his financial worth. I feel like I'm a 'trophy wife' to him - he's just comfortable having a girlfriend to look like he 'has it all'...
I got sick of this and broke up with him 3 weeks ago... but it's so hard to detach myself away from him :( I feel scared because I think guys who are interested in sex only want sex or would cheat etc! I think if I have a boyfriend who's had a history of sleeping around yet won't even sleep with me, I must be doomed -.-
It feels like there's not much help with this! Like, we always hear 'the girlfriend doesn't like sex/put out' in the media but when do we ever hear that the boyfriend doesn't?! It's so frustrating ;(
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Before me and my boyfriend got together we talked all the time and he said he classed me as his gf, but then I found out he had sex with some girl on a pier (yes...) and kissed someone. We weren't officially together so I forgave him and ended up being with him for 4 years.
The sex was amazing within the first 5 months, then he started saying he was 'too tired' a lot and would find me more 'cute' than 'sexy' - I could be wearing stockings, suspenders, heels, it doesn't matter - he still say wouldn't be up for it. I used to get really upset about it but he'd be there for me and said uni work/work just made him tired.
I asked if he'd go the doctors cause it was really getting to me but he kept making excuses.
He basically really does love me emotionally (always wants to cuddle and talk) but mainly cares about himself and his career and his financial worth. I feel like I'm a 'trophy wife' to him - he's just comfortable having a girlfriend to look like he 'has it all'...
I got sick of this and broke up with him 3 weeks ago... but it's so hard to detach myself away from him :( I feel scared because I think guys who are interested in sex only want sex or would cheat etc! I think if I have a boyfriend who's had a history of sleeping around yet won't even sleep with me, I must be doomed -.-
It feels like there's not much help with this! Like, we always hear 'the girlfriend doesn't like sex/put out' in the media but when do we ever hear that the boyfriend doesn't?! It's so frustrating ;(
March 22, 2015 - 7:34pmThis Comment
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