2 things. Either he is indeed cheating on you or like with most of the people I've heard hear, he is simply bored of the same old same old. That does not mean you btw. No just what you do in bed.
As fun as sex is for a guy doing the exact same thing too much is well repetitive. It's like eating your favourite food. Eat too much too quickly and you will get sick of it. Similar concept with sex For guys at least.
You start of strong because it's new to him (bby this I mean your style, sound and body) but eventually he knows it all. So what do you do when this happens? Try something completely new for him. Something he will never see coming.
By the sounds of it you haven't actually tried forcing yourself onto him despite his opinion at the time. For a lot of guys this can be new enough to surprise him and guys love getting surprised even if they don't always admit it.
He's a gamer right so maybe look at the games he plays and even try to get invested yourself because it's his happy place (trust me it's not that hard especially when kids under 6 do it). It's the same as sharing a hobby in a way. Notice if a lot of his games have unrealistically untraceable women on them (the cover is a good place to start) because that may be the main reason he plays them if so then look at their personality. Mimic it if you so wish.
Remember this is all just some random advice that you do not have to do at all if you don't feel comfortable. I'm just saying things that usually work for the maLe mind. Most gamers want some kind of gamer for a girlfriend (juse saying, totally understandable if you don't like it though, it's not for everyone)
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2 things. Either he is indeed cheating on you or like with most of the people I've heard hear, he is simply bored of the same old same old. That does not mean you btw. No just what you do in bed.
As fun as sex is for a guy doing the exact same thing too much is well repetitive. It's like eating your favourite food. Eat too much too quickly and you will get sick of it. Similar concept with sex For guys at least.
You start of strong because it's new to him (bby this I mean your style, sound and body) but eventually he knows it all. So what do you do when this happens? Try something completely new for him. Something he will never see coming.
By the sounds of it you haven't actually tried forcing yourself onto him despite his opinion at the time. For a lot of guys this can be new enough to surprise him and guys love getting surprised even if they don't always admit it.
He's a gamer right so maybe look at the games he plays and even try to get invested yourself because it's his happy place (trust me it's not that hard especially when kids under 6 do it). It's the same as sharing a hobby in a way. Notice if a lot of his games have unrealistically untraceable women on them (the cover is a good place to start) because that may be the main reason he plays them if so then look at their personality. Mimic it if you so wish.
Remember this is all just some random advice that you do not have to do at all if you don't feel comfortable. I'm just saying things that usually work for the maLe mind. Most gamers want some kind of gamer for a girlfriend (juse saying, totally understandable if you don't like it though, it's not for everyone)
April 7, 2015 - 4:59pmThis Comment
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