I wrote in here like 5 months ago and I'm still having issues with him. I've talked to him many times about this and all I got from him after so much nagging is that he admitted to have an issue with porn. He is not porn addicted, he probably watches porn once or twice a week, however he waits until I leave for work and then he just doesn't want to do anything with me, and if we do, he can't finish or orgasm. There are weeks were he stops watching porn, but now there is a plot twist: he pleasures himself with masturbation toys. In the earlier months of our 10 month relationship, I didn't mind to add sex toys for both of us on our sex routine, I still don't mind.... but I realize now that all he needs to pleasure himself is just sex toys and porn, not me.
What I find very strange is that he loves to touch me and he gets hard all the time, he has also told me he's very sexually attracted to me, however he won't do anything, he just touches me and then goes to do something else.
Three days ago he told me he was sorry he hasn't been touching me because he's worried about work, he's currently looking for a stable job and he's stressed about it. I understand it, but I'm also aware that if it's not stress, then it's tiredness or something else, just excuses all the time.
I love him too much that I even put in my mind to not get horny when he touches me, I still desire sex a lot, but when we do it, I have a hard time getting turned on, wet and even have a hard time coming. It's taken a huge psychological toll on me.
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I wrote in here like 5 months ago and I'm still having issues with him. I've talked to him many times about this and all I got from him after so much nagging is that he admitted to have an issue with porn. He is not porn addicted, he probably watches porn once or twice a week, however he waits until I leave for work and then he just doesn't want to do anything with me, and if we do, he can't finish or orgasm. There are weeks were he stops watching porn, but now there is a plot twist: he pleasures himself with masturbation toys. In the earlier months of our 10 month relationship, I didn't mind to add sex toys for both of us on our sex routine, I still don't mind.... but I realize now that all he needs to pleasure himself is just sex toys and porn, not me.
April 18, 2015 - 9:25amWhat I find very strange is that he loves to touch me and he gets hard all the time, he has also told me he's very sexually attracted to me, however he won't do anything, he just touches me and then goes to do something else.
Three days ago he told me he was sorry he hasn't been touching me because he's worried about work, he's currently looking for a stable job and he's stressed about it. I understand it, but I'm also aware that if it's not stress, then it's tiredness or something else, just excuses all the time.
I love him too much that I even put in my mind to not get horny when he touches me, I still desire sex a lot, but when we do it, I have a hard time getting turned on, wet and even have a hard time coming. It's taken a huge psychological toll on me.
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