I'm sorry to hear your in this situation. I normally don't respond to things online, but I wanted to let you know I'm in the exact same situation. We've also been together for 3 years, and in the beginning things were great. Now things are non existent. He has some issues with performance, which I believe is making him insecure. Personally, that issue doesn't bother me, as I understand it happens to some as we get older, but it seems affect him terribly. I'm also concerned that it's become more of an excuse for him other than what is actually going on. Obviously it's a factor, but he has completely lost all affection for me as well. If the roles were reversed, I would do something if it's just a physical issue (like go to the doctors). I'm to the point where I'm going to make a decision for our relationship because I've previously addressed the issue, and unfortunately nothing has changed. It's starting to negatively affect my emotions and I feel I deserve better, but it is also very hard to walk way from him because over all, I do love him. I guess I need to figure out if it is worth working through together or if I should just get out now. We are engaged, and I couldn't imagine the rest of my life without sex! LoL best of luck to you!
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I'm sorry to hear your in this situation. I normally don't respond to things online, but I wanted to let you know I'm in the exact same situation. We've also been together for 3 years, and in the beginning things were great. Now things are non existent. He has some issues with performance, which I believe is making him insecure. Personally, that issue doesn't bother me, as I understand it happens to some as we get older, but it seems affect him terribly. I'm also concerned that it's become more of an excuse for him other than what is actually going on. Obviously it's a factor, but he has completely lost all affection for me as well. If the roles were reversed, I would do something if it's just a physical issue (like go to the doctors). I'm to the point where I'm going to make a decision for our relationship because I've previously addressed the issue, and unfortunately nothing has changed. It's starting to negatively affect my emotions and I feel I deserve better, but it is also very hard to walk way from him because over all, I do love him. I guess I need to figure out if it is worth working through together or if I should just get out now. We are engaged, and I couldn't imagine the rest of my life without sex! LoL best of luck to you!
January 6, 2016 - 7:45pmThis Comment
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