My boyfriend and I are 8.5 years apart, we've been together for almost 2 years now and we just had a baby 6 months ago. He is a contractor, so a lot of the time his body hurts, but that has never stopped him from having sex with me. In the beginning, we couldn't get enough of each other, and we had awesome sex. But over time, we went from having sex like 3-4 times a week, to a couple times a week, to about once a week (if I'm lucky), once every couple weeks, and now it's been almost 2 months since we've really had sex and it's killing me. Every time I try to initiate it, he's too tired or his stomach hurts, or he has a headache, or he falls asleep before I get the chance to warm him up to it. Well, A couple weeks ago he got what I assume was a stomach bug and he threw up a couple times (this was when we'd gone about a month without sex), and ever since, every single day, he claims to not feel good or has a headache, and sometimes both. And I'm starting to feel like he just doesnt want to have sex with me anymore. I know he loves me, and he still shows affection to me by cuddling sometimes or he'll come kiss my forehead, but I need more. I'm doing my best to be patient, and some nights, like tonight, I'll kind of rub him over his shorts or boxers, and he'll start to get hard, and then he just rolls over! And I get so frustrated because I've been so deprived of that connection with him and he seems to have zero interest in sex, which I feel is just not normal for a man. Idk if it's a low sex drive or what, but he's seeing the doctor tomorrow about his stomach, so I guess he really hasn't been feeling well because he won't see a doctor unless he has to because he doesn't have health ins. So I'm praying the doctor can fix whatever is wrong so we can get back to to our normal sex life. Sorry this was such a long post.
Sincerely,
A very sexually frustrated, heartbroken woman
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My boyfriend and I are 8.5 years apart, we've been together for almost 2 years now and we just had a baby 6 months ago. He is a contractor, so a lot of the time his body hurts, but that has never stopped him from having sex with me. In the beginning, we couldn't get enough of each other, and we had awesome sex. But over time, we went from having sex like 3-4 times a week, to a couple times a week, to about once a week (if I'm lucky), once every couple weeks, and now it's been almost 2 months since we've really had sex and it's killing me. Every time I try to initiate it, he's too tired or his stomach hurts, or he has a headache, or he falls asleep before I get the chance to warm him up to it. Well, A couple weeks ago he got what I assume was a stomach bug and he threw up a couple times (this was when we'd gone about a month without sex), and ever since, every single day, he claims to not feel good or has a headache, and sometimes both. And I'm starting to feel like he just doesnt want to have sex with me anymore. I know he loves me, and he still shows affection to me by cuddling sometimes or he'll come kiss my forehead, but I need more. I'm doing my best to be patient, and some nights, like tonight, I'll kind of rub him over his shorts or boxers, and he'll start to get hard, and then he just rolls over! And I get so frustrated because I've been so deprived of that connection with him and he seems to have zero interest in sex, which I feel is just not normal for a man. Idk if it's a low sex drive or what, but he's seeing the doctor tomorrow about his stomach, so I guess he really hasn't been feeling well because he won't see a doctor unless he has to because he doesn't have health ins. So I'm praying the doctor can fix whatever is wrong so we can get back to to our normal sex life. Sorry this was such a long post.
Sincerely,
January 16, 2017 - 3:13amA very sexually frustrated, heartbroken woman
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