My boyfriend and I recently started having sex and his paranoia really is putting a strain on things. We have three safety measures to prevent any chance of pregnancy- condoms, birth control, and him not actually coming inside. It's been kind of frustrating since I get that he's scared and doesn't want to mess up our future but at the same time it's hard to understand why exactly he thinks this way. He said he's just built with worry and overall I'm just a very worry free person about most everything expect paying for college and school. Still you can't change them, just try and make compromises. Ask for sex right before your period (one of the times that's least likely for you to become pregnant) and limit it to once a month. Seeing you get your period should help with any pregnancy worries and hopefully he gradually becomes more comfortable.
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My boyfriend and I recently started having sex and his paranoia really is putting a strain on things. We have three safety measures to prevent any chance of pregnancy- condoms, birth control, and him not actually coming inside. It's been kind of frustrating since I get that he's scared and doesn't want to mess up our future but at the same time it's hard to understand why exactly he thinks this way. He said he's just built with worry and overall I'm just a very worry free person about most everything expect paying for college and school. Still you can't change them, just try and make compromises. Ask for sex right before your period (one of the times that's least likely for you to become pregnant) and limit it to once a month. Seeing you get your period should help with any pregnancy worries and hopefully he gradually becomes more comfortable.
April 4, 2017 - 7:24pmThis Comment
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