My husband ,the day before thanksgiving kicked me out of my home. I didn't realize the emotional abuse and sometimes physical abuse I was receiving until I was finally out of that poisonous environment. He was diagnosed with OCPD this past summer and now that I've been reading up on these blogs it's very clear that our whole marriage has been him expecting to live up to a standard that he fell well below and exploding at me then groveling only to later blame me. It was emotional warfare that my children often were innocent t bystanders who had to deal with the fallout. I'm trying to recover from the abuse and getting my children the help they need, but I will Never subject my children to that environment Again. I don't care that it's a disorder no one deserves to be treated the way I was treated wether their spouse has a disorder or not.
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My husband ,the day before thanksgiving kicked me out of my home. I didn't realize the emotional abuse and sometimes physical abuse I was receiving until I was finally out of that poisonous environment. He was diagnosed with OCPD this past summer and now that I've been reading up on these blogs it's very clear that our whole marriage has been him expecting to live up to a standard that he fell well below and exploding at me then groveling only to later blame me. It was emotional warfare that my children often were innocent t bystanders who had to deal with the fallout. I'm trying to recover from the abuse and getting my children the help they need, but I will Never subject my children to that environment Again. I don't care that it's a disorder no one deserves to be treated the way I was treated wether their spouse has a disorder or not.
December 26, 2015 - 9:08pmThis Comment
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