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Hi Mollie I hope things are better now. Your boyfriend seems to need REALLY big time help and you can't help him, since I assume you're not a therapist, psychologist or counsellor, but even if you were you couldn't help him because you're too close to him. I think you should take some time off from your relationship with him because I don't think you are safe with him, no one is safe around a person with a gun. I personally don't think he has ANY RIGHT at all to tell you when to get up or go to bed or anything else! As long as you do your share of the work, who the h**l's business is it anyways what hour you do this work in, whether you do it at 8 in the morning or 2 in the afternoon?! I imagine this must be very hard because you love him, but you must think that he doesn't sound like he is good for you, he must first learn to take care of himself and be good to himself (stop getting drunk, threatening to commit suicide, etc.), and then he can learn to be good to other people. I think you should wait until he gets some professional help before continuing on with the relationship.