I'm so sorry for all you've been through. And congratulations on the pregnancy!
Are you seeing a doctor yet for the pregnancy? You might ask her or him about your anger and anxiety. I think it's perfectly normal after what you've been through during the last year -- depression especially is common after a miscarriage, and it takes some time to grieve and move on. You are also raising two young boys and have been dealing with your ex. That would be a lot of stress for anyone. And now you are carrying a new baby, and need to eat well for two.
I hope that this doesn't sound out of line, but it seems from reading your posts that you are better off without your ex. He has left you twice when you needed support, and that's selfish and cruel. Even a good friend wouldn't do that, and your ex should be even more supportive than a good friend would be.
You are clearly a kind and loving person who adores her boys (and new baby) and wants to do the best for all of them. Please don't be so hard on yourself. Are you afraid you will try to hurt yourself again?
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Kimberlie,
I'm so sorry for all you've been through. And congratulations on the pregnancy!
Are you seeing a doctor yet for the pregnancy? You might ask her or him about your anger and anxiety. I think it's perfectly normal after what you've been through during the last year -- depression especially is common after a miscarriage, and it takes some time to grieve and move on. You are also raising two young boys and have been dealing with your ex. That would be a lot of stress for anyone. And now you are carrying a new baby, and need to eat well for two.
I hope that this doesn't sound out of line, but it seems from reading your posts that you are better off without your ex. He has left you twice when you needed support, and that's selfish and cruel. Even a good friend wouldn't do that, and your ex should be even more supportive than a good friend would be.
You are clearly a kind and loving person who adores her boys (and new baby) and wants to do the best for all of them. Please don't be so hard on yourself. Are you afraid you will try to hurt yourself again?
March 17, 2010 - 9:04amThis Comment
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