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You hit the nail on the head. I keep telling him that he basically made me be this person because he didn't want to grow up and now I am being punished for it.

Counseling went well. She said that she feels like as long as he is in the house there is hope. And for me to continue to try and work on my issues and maybe he will see that it is not as bad as he thinks it is. She has one more appointment with her and she is going to try and get him to come again. I really think that is would continue to go that he would make some progress. He is so no interested in the 3 day seminar so I am not even going to push that issue. He told me today that he doens't blame me for everything but that my attitude over the years and the way he feels he knows that this is something that he needs to try and do. I returned with so you think that getting rid of me is the magic trick to your happiness. He said he didn't know but that he new I played a big part in it. So who knows.........

Personally, I know that is not going to fix anything.