My story is a sad one. Married again for 8 years to the most amazing man of my life. But when we had a baby together I changed and pretty much kicked him out of our bed and my life. I guess I did love him but fell out of love.
We barely had sex. But shortly after having it I started suffering with burning and itchiness. I thought it was BV as it had been a while since we had sex.
I finally went to the Drs after a few weeks after trying every over the counter remedy. It came back with trich. I could’ve died. I’d never heard of it. I hadn’t been unfaithful and had regular Pap smears. The Pap smear is what came up positive.
I spoke to my husband- his mouth said no way but his body language was guilty. Then I remembered his recent insomnia, I got flashes of how bad I treated him. He was the man I would’ve sworn on my soul he would never do anything behind my back.
But as we spoke he told me of an incident that happened while he was ubering a crazy drunk girl home. After months and hours of therapy I’m not here to defend him but I do believe him. She tried as hard as possible. Took advantage of his sad vulnerable state and jumped on him and attempted to insert his penis. He ended up pushing her off him. He didn’t think for a second that quick moment would cause so much pain for us. We are starting to heal. He is going to go for therapy on his own with a specialist in trauma and assault.
He had no symptoms but tested positive. He would have baths with our 1 year old and share towels occasionally and this is what bothers me so much. That this could’ve been passed to our son. He’s had a urine test but not specifically tested for it.
We are healing our marriage but healing from an std is so hard. There was no erection, he got it from contact. It’s nasty.
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My story is a sad one. Married again for 8 years to the most amazing man of my life. But when we had a baby together I changed and pretty much kicked him out of our bed and my life. I guess I did love him but fell out of love.
April 17, 2019 - 5:35amWe barely had sex. But shortly after having it I started suffering with burning and itchiness. I thought it was BV as it had been a while since we had sex.
I finally went to the Drs after a few weeks after trying every over the counter remedy. It came back with trich. I could’ve died. I’d never heard of it. I hadn’t been unfaithful and had regular Pap smears. The Pap smear is what came up positive.
I spoke to my husband- his mouth said no way but his body language was guilty. Then I remembered his recent insomnia, I got flashes of how bad I treated him. He was the man I would’ve sworn on my soul he would never do anything behind my back.
But as we spoke he told me of an incident that happened while he was ubering a crazy drunk girl home. After months and hours of therapy I’m not here to defend him but I do believe him. She tried as hard as possible. Took advantage of his sad vulnerable state and jumped on him and attempted to insert his penis. He ended up pushing her off him. He didn’t think for a second that quick moment would cause so much pain for us. We are starting to heal. He is going to go for therapy on his own with a specialist in trauma and assault.
He had no symptoms but tested positive. He would have baths with our 1 year old and share towels occasionally and this is what bothers me so much. That this could’ve been passed to our son. He’s had a urine test but not specifically tested for it.
We are healing our marriage but healing from an std is so hard. There was no erection, he got it from contact. It’s nasty.
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