I am in the same exact situation at the moment and I completely feel your pain and frustration. I am 26 and my Fiance is 39 and I just moved to South Africa with my daughter from the USA to be with him, before our sex was amazing and he couldn't get enough of me and made me feel like the sexiest woman in the world...but now we are going on 2 months since he has touched me or even tried, he says he's stressed with work and I know he is, I work at the same company and know what he deals with daily but regardless 2 months I am going crazy, beyond crazy. When I try to talk about it he says the same " i know it's an issue, don't you think I realize the issue and the more you pressure me the worse it gets". I have gotten rejected so much when it comes to sex that I feel so low about myself and it's not that I am unattractive by any means but I feel that way now because he blows me off so much now, and my made in china friend (we all know what that is) is getting really old and not satisfying me the way that he can or could for that matter and I am lost I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like a damn nun living in a convent. If your issue has bettered I could use some advice as I am so frustrated and alone feeling. I know he loves me very much without a doubt I just dont know what the issue is and why he doesn't want me. If you can offer advice I'm willing to take it, if you are still in the same boat well then good luck and I'll update you if I come across anything that works.
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I am in the same exact situation at the moment and I completely feel your pain and frustration. I am 26 and my Fiance is 39 and I just moved to South Africa with my daughter from the USA to be with him, before our sex was amazing and he couldn't get enough of me and made me feel like the sexiest woman in the world...but now we are going on 2 months since he has touched me or even tried, he says he's stressed with work and I know he is, I work at the same company and know what he deals with daily but regardless 2 months I am going crazy, beyond crazy. When I try to talk about it he says the same " i know it's an issue, don't you think I realize the issue and the more you pressure me the worse it gets". I have gotten rejected so much when it comes to sex that I feel so low about myself and it's not that I am unattractive by any means but I feel that way now because he blows me off so much now, and my made in china friend (we all know what that is) is getting really old and not satisfying me the way that he can or could for that matter and I am lost I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like a damn nun living in a convent. If your issue has bettered I could use some advice as I am so frustrated and alone feeling. I know he loves me very much without a doubt I just dont know what the issue is and why he doesn't want me. If you can offer advice I'm willing to take it, if you are still in the same boat well then good luck and I'll update you if I come across anything that works.
November 21, 2010 - 1:45pmRegards
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