Hi Anonymous, I too was the victim of such abuse. I did my research and found a highly recommended doctor who did the hemorrhoid banding and I thought I was going into a good place. I had lots of pain and internal and external hemorrhoids plus a fissure. Which is a rip in the skin that also hurt like hell besides the bleeding hemorrhoids. Well he didn't explain much to me either but what I found most disturbing was his manner in which he came in. He said hello but he sounded sleepy, or drugged or drunk or ..aroused.. I am not sure which but I got a very uneasy feeling right away, and I think he saw that on my face and suddenly he acted very professional. That scared me to see the sudden change but it did lead to me asking myself if I had heard things or felt things right in the first place. I had a bad feeling, you know sometimes u have those and sometimes you listen to them and sometimes you dont and most times you wish you had even if you are wrong. I too bent over the table he then pumped down the front so that my butt was up in the air in front of his face and there was NO nurse with us. I thought shed be in soon but she never came in. After he examined me he told me what was going on down there and asked if I wanted to have banding done and I said yes. So he did one and said that hed have to save the others for another visit. Then as he was putting things away and finishing up I felt his hand slightly brush against my vagina. At first i thought it was accidental but later after I went home, it bothered me a lot and I realized that he most likely did it on purpose. After he did this, he slapped my butt and said in a rather amusing tone, "Don't worry, I'm gonna give you a brand new butt!!" I didn't want to go back but I had to because the rubber band needed to be checked. But this time I made sure that my husband was in the exam room with me. I thought Id be safe for sure. He seemed shocked to see him and I was glad to have him there with me. Unfortunately he got to see the undignified position of my butt in front of the male doctor. He did another banding procedure but this time it hurt and there was supposed to be no pain but there was too much talking to say anything. I should have because I went home in pain and thought it'd go away but it only got worse until in the evening I couldn't stand it anymore but I didn't want to go see him again because I was afraid now of what he might do to hurt me further. So I saw the videos again this clinic provided and thought that the my problem was that the banding was too tight and attached to my muscle which sometimes happens but is not supposed to however can be taken care of easily in the office if caught before you leave. He never asked if I was in pain or examined to make sure all was well. I was in so much pain that evening, I was so desperate I asked my husband to do it for me. I showed him the video I found online and then he put sanitary gloves on and lubricant and inserted his finger in and i guided him where it hurt and he wiggled the band and the skin like in the video and suddenly there was no more pain. Thank God he was successful tho Id recommend if this happens you go to an emergency room or another doctor if possible. I never went back to this doctor and now the whole clinic has shut down and he has his own private practice all within a year or less of seeing him.. Hmmmm .. wonder why.. maybe he has suits against him.. Perhaps if I went into the ER Id have to undergo surgery.. and then somethings can go very wrong.. even a lifetime of pain could have awaited me. I don't know but that was my ordeal and I still have hemorrhoids and suffering right now as a matter of fact.
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Hi Anonymous, I too was the victim of such abuse. I did my research and found a highly recommended doctor who did the hemorrhoid banding and I thought I was going into a good place. I had lots of pain and internal and external hemorrhoids plus a fissure. Which is a rip in the skin that also hurt like hell besides the bleeding hemorrhoids. Well he didn't explain much to me either but what I found most disturbing was his manner in which he came in. He said hello but he sounded sleepy, or drugged or drunk or ..aroused.. I am not sure which but I got a very uneasy feeling right away, and I think he saw that on my face and suddenly he acted very professional. That scared me to see the sudden change but it did lead to me asking myself if I had heard things or felt things right in the first place. I had a bad feeling, you know sometimes u have those and sometimes you listen to them and sometimes you dont and most times you wish you had even if you are wrong. I too bent over the table he then pumped down the front so that my butt was up in the air in front of his face and there was NO nurse with us. I thought shed be in soon but she never came in. After he examined me he told me what was going on down there and asked if I wanted to have banding done and I said yes. So he did one and said that hed have to save the others for another visit. Then as he was putting things away and finishing up I felt his hand slightly brush against my vagina. At first i thought it was accidental but later after I went home, it bothered me a lot and I realized that he most likely did it on purpose. After he did this, he slapped my butt and said in a rather amusing tone, "Don't worry, I'm gonna give you a brand new butt!!" I didn't want to go back but I had to because the rubber band needed to be checked. But this time I made sure that my husband was in the exam room with me. I thought Id be safe for sure. He seemed shocked to see him and I was glad to have him there with me. Unfortunately he got to see the undignified position of my butt in front of the male doctor. He did another banding procedure but this time it hurt and there was supposed to be no pain but there was too much talking to say anything. I should have because I went home in pain and thought it'd go away but it only got worse until in the evening I couldn't stand it anymore but I didn't want to go see him again because I was afraid now of what he might do to hurt me further. So I saw the videos again this clinic provided and thought that the my problem was that the banding was too tight and attached to my muscle which sometimes happens but is not supposed to however can be taken care of easily in the office if caught before you leave. He never asked if I was in pain or examined to make sure all was well. I was in so much pain that evening, I was so desperate I asked my husband to do it for me. I showed him the video I found online and then he put sanitary gloves on and lubricant and inserted his finger in and i guided him where it hurt and he wiggled the band and the skin like in the video and suddenly there was no more pain. Thank God he was successful tho Id recommend if this happens you go to an emergency room or another doctor if possible. I never went back to this doctor and now the whole clinic has shut down and he has his own private practice all within a year or less of seeing him.. Hmmmm .. wonder why.. maybe he has suits against him.. Perhaps if I went into the ER Id have to undergo surgery.. and then somethings can go very wrong.. even a lifetime of pain could have awaited me. I don't know but that was my ordeal and I still have hemorrhoids and suffering right now as a matter of fact.
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