hmmm i was in this situation in all of my longer relationships, and you know what? all of them ended. for me being best friends is important, but you can't ONLY be a best friend, at least i can't. i am sexually quite active and i know on the long run it turns the guys off, although at the beginning it's all a dream come true and they all always just talk about how great it is to have an active woman bla bla bla... but then in the end it all ended the same.
..but then i ran into a bigger freak then me :) it's been over 4 years and we still have sex nearly every day, sometimes it can go down to 3-4 times a week in the periods in which he's overworked and stressed with the job, but then it always goes back to normal in a week or two.
and this work issue.. after all this, i think it affects them more than we would think, woman are born to be multitasking and can manage more responsibilities at the same time, job, career, family, relationships, hobbies.. men, they're more one thing at a time, so if the job is dragging their ego down.. well taht ego will fall on all the fields. and when they see they can't satisfy their own woman the ego drops so bad that they just need to go on kinda humiliating you and blaming you for being "insisting" or "putting pressure" so YOU would feel WRONG and not THEM.
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hmmm i was in this situation in all of my longer relationships, and you know what? all of them ended. for me being best friends is important, but you can't ONLY be a best friend, at least i can't. i am sexually quite active and i know on the long run it turns the guys off, although at the beginning it's all a dream come true and they all always just talk about how great it is to have an active woman bla bla bla... but then in the end it all ended the same.
July 6, 2010 - 4:26pm..but then i ran into a bigger freak then me :) it's been over 4 years and we still have sex nearly every day, sometimes it can go down to 3-4 times a week in the periods in which he's overworked and stressed with the job, but then it always goes back to normal in a week or two.
and this work issue.. after all this, i think it affects them more than we would think, woman are born to be multitasking and can manage more responsibilities at the same time, job, career, family, relationships, hobbies.. men, they're more one thing at a time, so if the job is dragging their ego down.. well taht ego will fall on all the fields. and when they see they can't satisfy their own woman the ego drops so bad that they just need to go on kinda humiliating you and blaming you for being "insisting" or "putting pressure" so YOU would feel WRONG and not THEM.
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