I am in the same boat, my boyfriend did the same thing to me one night. He rejects my advances all the time. I finally asked him one night after being shut down yet again, he didn't want to say it but I said how am I suppose to know. He told me my weight was the problem and that he wasn't physically attracted to me! Now yes since we have been together (1 year 9 months) I have put some weight on and so has he. I had a skiing injury to my knee and was off for a month or so. I agree with you that as we are in love and he said he still loves me, that the flaws are things that you don't see. Sure you know they are there but when you love someone that's who they are and you accept that! I feel like I could loose the weight and every time I think about it I get upset because of what he said. I'm not doing it for me but for the chance to have sex. I have gone 6 weeks without anything. He said he just can't get it up, and that's suppose to make me feel better! It makes me feel worse. I have gone into a depression because when I think about it I become very sad and have no confidence in myself, how am I suppose to when the one person that is suppose to love you unconditionally is not sexually attracted to you? We do cuddle and hold hands and kiss (peck only when we leave for work). What are we suppose to do now ?
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I am in the same boat, my boyfriend did the same thing to me one night. He rejects my advances all the time. I finally asked him one night after being shut down yet again, he didn't want to say it but I said how am I suppose to know. He told me my weight was the problem and that he wasn't physically attracted to me! Now yes since we have been together (1 year 9 months) I have put some weight on and so has he. I had a skiing injury to my knee and was off for a month or so. I agree with you that as we are in love and he said he still loves me, that the flaws are things that you don't see. Sure you know they are there but when you love someone that's who they are and you accept that! I feel like I could loose the weight and every time I think about it I get upset because of what he said. I'm not doing it for me but for the chance to have sex. I have gone 6 weeks without anything. He said he just can't get it up, and that's suppose to make me feel better! It makes me feel worse. I have gone into a depression because when I think about it I become very sad and have no confidence in myself, how am I suppose to when the one person that is suppose to love you unconditionally is not sexually attracted to you? We do cuddle and hold hands and kiss (peck only when we leave for work). What are we suppose to do now ?
July 1, 2015 - 3:19pmThis Comment
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