Hi every awesome girlies on here :) (I just like to call females girlies and I am one). I am bisexual I had to get that out there(my b/f says it doesn't bother him). Anyways, I have been 2gether with my boyfriend a little over one year. He is 22 and I am 28. This is the first time I have dated Anyone (male/female) that young. I gave it a chance and I am still. We live together. In the beginning we had a lot of sex but now nothing...like all of you (that are concerned your boyfriends aren't attracted to you &which I feel the same way) . He kisses me every single day and says he loves me. Today I gave him oral and of course it was one sided (even though I love to please him). In fact I have NEVER been so attracted to a man before in my life. My issue here is that I'm afraid he won't want to be with me for life. The fact is I am 28 and don't want flings or mundane relationships. I want the real deal. I look young (always get carded, been told that, good genes, half Asian) but I still have doubts....I don't know if this relationship is going to last forever. On top of the sex thing we have other slight issues but nothing too major. I am enjoying this relationship...while I can. I think I will ALWAYS be attracted to him but I don't think he will....honestly. I feel for all of you and I hope you work everything out with your sig figs. As do I. But some of you (from the ones I've read) probably need to get out of their relationships. I also feel that I might need to do the same. I am in love and love him so much (he says that too) but let's face it...the sex is just not there. He ever=n tries to tell me that I AM a sex addict which I'm not. BUT in the beginning of our relationship HE was the one who wanted sex everyday (sometimes even multiple times a day). I don't know what the point is of this. I guess I am concerned about the age gap and also the sex....I sometimes feel that he is not attracted me. Oh and I want to tell you all that this is HIS first relationship ever. But the age gap still bothers me a tad. I feel lost sometimes. I WANT our relationship to last but honestly I just don't think it will. I don't know what to do. So I am in the same boat. It sounds like a lot of us girlies on here need to most likely end our relationships....even if we don't want to. We all have similar issues not necessarily the exact same. But I feel all of you awesome girls' pain. We all deserve the best and should not settle for less. I feel as though my b/f is the best but the age gap and the sexless issue is REALLY bothering me.
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Hi every awesome girlies on here :) (I just like to call females girlies and I am one). I am bisexual I had to get that out there(my b/f says it doesn't bother him). Anyways, I have been 2gether with my boyfriend a little over one year. He is 22 and I am 28. This is the first time I have dated Anyone (male/female) that young. I gave it a chance and I am still. We live together. In the beginning we had a lot of sex but now nothing...like all of you (that are concerned your boyfriends aren't attracted to you &which I feel the same way) . He kisses me every single day and says he loves me. Today I gave him oral and of course it was one sided (even though I love to please him). In fact I have NEVER been so attracted to a man before in my life. My issue here is that I'm afraid he won't want to be with me for life. The fact is I am 28 and don't want flings or mundane relationships. I want the real deal. I look young (always get carded, been told that, good genes, half Asian) but I still have doubts....I don't know if this relationship is going to last forever. On top of the sex thing we have other slight issues but nothing too major. I am enjoying this relationship...while I can. I think I will ALWAYS be attracted to him but I don't think he will....honestly. I feel for all of you and I hope you work everything out with your sig figs. As do I. But some of you (from the ones I've read) probably need to get out of their relationships. I also feel that I might need to do the same. I am in love and love him so much (he says that too) but let's face it...the sex is just not there. He ever=n tries to tell me that I AM a sex addict which I'm not. BUT in the beginning of our relationship HE was the one who wanted sex everyday (sometimes even multiple times a day). I don't know what the point is of this. I guess I am concerned about the age gap and also the sex....I sometimes feel that he is not attracted me. Oh and I want to tell you all that this is HIS first relationship ever. But the age gap still bothers me a tad. I feel lost sometimes. I WANT our relationship to last but honestly I just don't think it will. I don't know what to do. So I am in the same boat. It sounds like a lot of us girlies on here need to most likely end our relationships....even if we don't want to. We all have similar issues not necessarily the exact same. But I feel all of you awesome girls' pain. We all deserve the best and should not settle for less. I feel as though my b/f is the best but the age gap and the sexless issue is REALLY bothering me.
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