Well I just wanted to say I didn't realize how many other women are dealing with the same problem. I am engaged to a good man. We have been together 5 years. Both divorced. I am 50. He is 52. He tries to give me what I want materially. When we were dating he couldn't keep his hands off me but we moved in together a year ago and it is like a switch has been flipped. He shows no interest in intimacy and sex is maybe twice a month "so I don't get mad ". No foreplay. It's like sympathy sex and I am so sexually frustrated. I know he loves me and wants to take care of me but I am not dead yet and want intimacy. It's like he is afraid to touch me because I guess he thinks I might expect something. I gave up on asking. Not worth the rejection. It is hard. I know he loves me so I guess I will learn to live without if possible.
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Well I just wanted to say I didn't realize how many other women are dealing with the same problem. I am engaged to a good man. We have been together 5 years. Both divorced. I am 50. He is 52. He tries to give me what I want materially. When we were dating he couldn't keep his hands off me but we moved in together a year ago and it is like a switch has been flipped. He shows no interest in intimacy and sex is maybe twice a month "so I don't get mad ". No foreplay. It's like sympathy sex and I am so sexually frustrated. I know he loves me and wants to take care of me but I am not dead yet and want intimacy. It's like he is afraid to touch me because I guess he thinks I might expect something. I gave up on asking. Not worth the rejection. It is hard. I know he loves me so I guess I will learn to live without if possible.
May 28, 2017 - 5:17pmThis Comment
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