I am going through the same exact thing, this shit sucks honestly.. me and my man have been together for 5 years, he is 22 and I am 19 and will be 20 in July. We have done everything together for a VERY long time, we've lived together almost our whole relationship. He used to be so attracted to me and he still makes sure to let me know my ass looks nice or my body looks good and he does tell me on a regular basis but we go through these phases where there will be like 10 months out of each year that he just doesn't present the opportunity to me to have sex, I have to come on to him and even then he doesn't even seem like he wants it.. it's always a quickie then.. those has only been going on for 3 out of those 5 years and it does seem like it shouldn't bother me because my boyfriend is VERY loving, he is so awesome and he always has been. Like I said he compliments me constantly, he hugs and kisses me but I just want him to be all over me sexually the way he used to be. I've really tried everything and I'm TIRED of him not coming on to me. I feel like I have a lump in my throat every time we lay down for bed bc I want for it to happen so bad and I just know it won't, and it doesn't most of the time. Here lately especially the only time we are having sex is if I start first and that isn't right and like I said he makes sure it doesn't last long. My boyfriend has NEVER cheated on me he is very good to me but this is tearing me down, I cry about this all the time and he doesn't understand and it makes him mad when I tell him about it because he says he can't explain why he's like this either SO therefor if I want to be upset which is all the time I'm left to deal with it by myself because he is such a hard worker i don't want him being mad all the time when he comes home from work..... can ANYONE HELP ME OR TELL ME WHAT THIS SOUNDS LIKE TO U. I TRULY NEED HELP & IM SO LOST AT WHAT TO DO...
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I am going through the same exact thing, this shit sucks honestly.. me and my man have been together for 5 years, he is 22 and I am 19 and will be 20 in July. We have done everything together for a VERY long time, we've lived together almost our whole relationship. He used to be so attracted to me and he still makes sure to let me know my ass looks nice or my body looks good and he does tell me on a regular basis but we go through these phases where there will be like 10 months out of each year that he just doesn't present the opportunity to me to have sex, I have to come on to him and even then he doesn't even seem like he wants it.. it's always a quickie then.. those has only been going on for 3 out of those 5 years and it does seem like it shouldn't bother me because my boyfriend is VERY loving, he is so awesome and he always has been. Like I said he compliments me constantly, he hugs and kisses me but I just want him to be all over me sexually the way he used to be. I've really tried everything and I'm TIRED of him not coming on to me. I feel like I have a lump in my throat every time we lay down for bed bc I want for it to happen so bad and I just know it won't, and it doesn't most of the time. Here lately especially the only time we are having sex is if I start first and that isn't right and like I said he makes sure it doesn't last long. My boyfriend has NEVER cheated on me he is very good to me but this is tearing me down, I cry about this all the time and he doesn't understand and it makes him mad when I tell him about it because he says he can't explain why he's like this either SO therefor if I want to be upset which is all the time I'm left to deal with it by myself because he is such a hard worker i don't want him being mad all the time when he comes home from work..... can ANYONE HELP ME OR TELL ME WHAT THIS SOUNDS LIKE TO U. I TRULY NEED HELP & IM SO LOST AT WHAT TO DO...
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