im 47 and my partner of 8 yrs is 43, my partner does have a thyroid problem so i know it might affect him having sex but he has told me that my weight does not help and his not attracted to me though he still loves me, im 15 stones, he says he hates the smell of sex and finds it disgusting but somtimes he has masterbated to porn, when i ask him why when he can have sex with me he says he doesnt come properly and he doesnt get the smell of sex, i do love him but find myself resenting him for being so selfish and not really caring how i feel, or am i being selfish when i know his got a medical problem, is sex so important or being with someone who says they love you a lot, its just so frustrating, i even have to ask for a cuddle and if i do try and touch him he says im weird and theres something wrong with me, sometimes i wish i was single and on my own so i didnt have all this crap and maybe i would be happier.
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im 47 and my partner of 8 yrs is 43, my partner does have a thyroid problem so i know it might affect him having sex but he has told me that my weight does not help and his not attracted to me though he still loves me, im 15 stones, he says he hates the smell of sex and finds it disgusting but somtimes he has masterbated to porn, when i ask him why when he can have sex with me he says he doesnt come properly and he doesnt get the smell of sex, i do love him but find myself resenting him for being so selfish and not really caring how i feel, or am i being selfish when i know his got a medical problem, is sex so important or being with someone who says they love you a lot, its just so frustrating, i even have to ask for a cuddle and if i do try and touch him he says im weird and theres something wrong with me, sometimes i wish i was single and on my own so i didnt have all this crap and maybe i would be happier.
July 30, 2018 - 5:27pmThis Comment
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