I am so sorry you are feeling this way, but it sounds very healthy that you are working your way through these complex emotions. Have you come up with any answers to your questions? Many of us have felt this same way in relationships...wondering if the good parts outweigh the bad parts (to put it very simply). I was surprised to read that it sounds like what is keeping you with this person is that you made a vow to be partners for life, although every emotion I am reading from you says that you are not wanting to be this person's partner for life, but feel that you made a promise and are now stuck with this promise.
I hope you know that your "vow" was with the best intention, with all of the information you had at the moment. It does not make you less of a person if you are now wanting to make a different vow. That's what makes us all human...we are capable of choosing our own destinies and continuously writing and re-writing the scripts of our lives with the information we have in front of us at the time. We are constantly evolving, changing, along with our environment and those around us.
Are you able to tell any one in your family, or any friends, about your pregnancy? Is there anyone you can depend on to help you through this difficult time right now?
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I am so sorry you are feeling this way, but it sounds very healthy that you are working your way through these complex emotions. Have you come up with any answers to your questions? Many of us have felt this same way in relationships...wondering if the good parts outweigh the bad parts (to put it very simply). I was surprised to read that it sounds like what is keeping you with this person is that you made a vow to be partners for life, although every emotion I am reading from you says that you are not wanting to be this person's partner for life, but feel that you made a promise and are now stuck with this promise.
I hope you know that your "vow" was with the best intention, with all of the information you had at the moment. It does not make you less of a person if you are now wanting to make a different vow. That's what makes us all human...we are capable of choosing our own destinies and continuously writing and re-writing the scripts of our lives with the information we have in front of us at the time. We are constantly evolving, changing, along with our environment and those around us.
Are you able to tell any one in your family, or any friends, about your pregnancy? Is there anyone you can depend on to help you through this difficult time right now?
June 3, 2010 - 1:15pmThis Comment
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