I have personally experienced this. My ex-husband has completely brainwashed our children to eliminate and delete me. They refuse to see me, or answer any of my attempts to communicate with them. I paid for their college tuition, but they prevented me from going to the graduation ceremony. I don't even know if they read my emails - they may simply delete them without reading them. They stopped answering their phones and never returned my calls. When I attempted to discuss this with their dad, he denied it or became verbally hostile with me.
This is a horrible, abusive and evil behavior, and without supportive friends and family, I would not have survived. I still after several years have days when I can't stop crying. Some people don't understand - and it is very frustrating when they "preach" or "counsel" about "moving on" - as if I haven't...
I have "moved on" as best I can - but that does NOT mean I have forgotten my children! I can't forget them! But I have also had to accept the almost fact, that I may NEVER see or hear from them again, because the information and research does seem to indicate that the older they get and the longer it goes, they are less likely to ever reconnect...
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I have personally experienced this. My ex-husband has completely brainwashed our children to eliminate and delete me. They refuse to see me, or answer any of my attempts to communicate with them. I paid for their college tuition, but they prevented me from going to the graduation ceremony. I don't even know if they read my emails - they may simply delete them without reading them. They stopped answering their phones and never returned my calls. When I attempted to discuss this with their dad, he denied it or became verbally hostile with me.
June 15, 2010 - 4:30pmThis is a horrible, abusive and evil behavior, and without supportive friends and family, I would not have survived. I still after several years have days when I can't stop crying. Some people don't understand - and it is very frustrating when they "preach" or "counsel" about "moving on" - as if I haven't...
I have "moved on" as best I can - but that does NOT mean I have forgotten my children! I can't forget them! But I have also had to accept the almost fact, that I may NEVER see or hear from them again, because the information and research does seem to indicate that the older they get and the longer it goes, they are less likely to ever reconnect...
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