I was married with a man with asperger's syndrome and other problems. He was verbally abusive, yet charming and a great problem solver at times. Very smart in many ways but incapable of empathysing with other persons feelings. It was a nightmare. I think that everybody deserves love but if you see red flags you should take an educated decition. Otherwise you would be expecting things that are not going to happen and became resentful. I know that it would have been completely different if I knew back then that he had the syndrome.
It was a time were the kids were getting emotionally hurt and I had to leave him. Long after I found out about his diagnosis.
I loved him profoundly but since I didn't know, that wasn't enough to stay together. I started to have panic attacks and get very sick.
If you see anything out of the ordinary in your partner you should have a professional opinion so you can decide based on that knowledge and get support if nedded.
God bless you all.
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I was married with a man with asperger's syndrome and other problems. He was verbally abusive, yet charming and a great problem solver at times. Very smart in many ways but incapable of empathysing with other persons feelings. It was a nightmare. I think that everybody deserves love but if you see red flags you should take an educated decition. Otherwise you would be expecting things that are not going to happen and became resentful. I know that it would have been completely different if I knew back then that he had the syndrome.
August 28, 2012 - 9:25amIt was a time were the kids were getting emotionally hurt and I had to leave him. Long after I found out about his diagnosis.
I loved him profoundly but since I didn't know, that wasn't enough to stay together. I started to have panic attacks and get very sick.
If you see anything out of the ordinary in your partner you should have a professional opinion so you can decide based on that knowledge and get support if nedded.
God bless you all.
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