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I absolutely agree!!! I should be an expert on being with an ASPIE for 12 years now. Pushing your daughter to be in a relationship with him will tell her she doesn't have the right to decide who she is attracted to , it will also send a message that his narcissistic behavior is acceptable for her to have to deal with... They can be adorable but they do have a strong tendency to be very very self absorbed.. and if you read up on it, you'll see that they also can change once the relationship comits more. They will drop the romantic efforts and find something else to focus on leaving the other person dumfounded as to what happened. Believe me.. it can be abusive ( not intentionally and very heart breaking for the NT person). Hindsight I wish I'd left a long long time ago when I realized he only wanted me , because he wanted me... then... and I was just a thing in his life... I can say it has been hell.. for sure... I've never been that important to him once we moved in together... and I never will. That is a hard thing to accept. Please don't push this on anyone. Friendship can be much more enjoyable for both than romance. If someone chooses it as an adult that is informed that is one thing... it's another to talk someone into it...