Although this is a serious matter, I chuckled at the beer-goggle comment.
With any addiction, whether your drinking was or was not an addiction, your life changes and things are dramatically different. Your inhibitions are usually blinded by alcohol so think of something you may have done to him (to get him aroused) while you both were drinking and try that. You initiate it. Do not fear rejection and keep trying.
There is a big different between your life now and your life then....you can still make your sex life exciting without alcohol, just learn to loosen up and he needs to also. Fear of rejection will always be a large problem in a relationship and talking to him about it will also help. You do not need alcohol to have great sex but you do need communication to start fresh and new without the alcohol in your life.
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Hi Missay,
Although this is a serious matter, I chuckled at the beer-goggle comment.
With any addiction, whether your drinking was or was not an addiction, your life changes and things are dramatically different. Your inhibitions are usually blinded by alcohol so think of something you may have done to him (to get him aroused) while you both were drinking and try that. You initiate it. Do not fear rejection and keep trying.
There is a big different between your life now and your life then....you can still make your sex life exciting without alcohol, just learn to loosen up and he needs to also. Fear of rejection will always be a large problem in a relationship and talking to him about it will also help. You do not need alcohol to have great sex but you do need communication to start fresh and new without the alcohol in your life.
Does this help? Can you keep us updated?
July 10, 2010 - 9:15amThis Comment
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