Its happen to me too. Since my bf came back from oversea, he hardly come and also lazy have sex with me.
I found so hurt sometime because i felt Im not attractive enough to turn him on... I cried in front of him and told him all that. But he said he didn't mean it, he loves me so much. I felf alots love from him, he care for me alots, get so well along with my family.
Sex is something connect our relationship more stronger. And i have nothing from him sometime ... I need it so bad.
Aniwai, I was searching online what is a reason cause him not interesting having sex with me... because I feel the love from him.
My boy, he might stress out about his financial, work place, increase hours of work and his last relationship might affect him too.
It might cause him think he is not attractive to me enough or he is not worth for me to love him or I can get some1 better than him.....That might reasons why he hardly to get hard.
Girl, you need to ask yourself that how much you love this guy? will you stay with him without sex? will you give out everything for him? If the answer is YES then I think you should take it slow and find out what happen to him, what is he thinking and what is in his mind. That's what Im doing at the moment.
Let him know its ok if he can not turn on while you guy having sex... Give hime sometime... He will get better once he feels your love.
And if your answer is NO then i think you just move on. don't waste your time if you need sex so much than a person who can take care you and be with you when you need
i think when your bf hardly to get hard, and you might said something or your action make him think he is not attractive to you. It might a reason why he get hard and then turn to floppy.
The good way for you is "don't take sex as important, let him know its ok if he can not do it, take it slow, show him you love him and how attractive he is to you.."
Hope all its help :) goodluck
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Its happen to me too. Since my bf came back from oversea, he hardly come and also lazy have sex with me.
October 3, 2011 - 6:34pmI found so hurt sometime because i felt Im not attractive enough to turn him on... I cried in front of him and told him all that. But he said he didn't mean it, he loves me so much. I felf alots love from him, he care for me alots, get so well along with my family.
Sex is something connect our relationship more stronger. And i have nothing from him sometime ... I need it so bad.
Aniwai, I was searching online what is a reason cause him not interesting having sex with me... because I feel the love from him.
My boy, he might stress out about his financial, work place, increase hours of work and his last relationship might affect him too.
It might cause him think he is not attractive to me enough or he is not worth for me to love him or I can get some1 better than him.....That might reasons why he hardly to get hard.
Girl, you need to ask yourself that how much you love this guy? will you stay with him without sex? will you give out everything for him? If the answer is YES then I think you should take it slow and find out what happen to him, what is he thinking and what is in his mind. That's what Im doing at the moment.
Let him know its ok if he can not turn on while you guy having sex... Give hime sometime... He will get better once he feels your love.
And if your answer is NO then i think you just move on. don't waste your time if you need sex so much than a person who can take care you and be with you when you need
i think when your bf hardly to get hard, and you might said something or your action make him think he is not attractive to you. It might a reason why he get hard and then turn to floppy.
The good way for you is "don't take sex as important, let him know its ok if he can not do it, take it slow, show him you love him and how attractive he is to you.."
Hope all its help :) goodluck
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