Hi Faith, my husband has denied me sex on a few occassions because of his masturbation although he denies it, but not too often that I am aware of. What I am most bothered by is the fact that he lied to me for 30 years about it. We made a pact that we would only masturbate with each other when we were young and it was the dumbest thing we could have ever done. But if he would have told me much sooner that he had been doing it alone and then lying about it, whenever I asked about it, it may have been a little easier for me to get over it. Why did he wait 30 years and then one day, out of the blue, unsolicited just blurt out that he's been masturbating all along. Did he tell me to hurt me or to make me feel insecure that I've been believing a lie for 30 years? I feel like such a fool. Does it ever make you feel insecure when your husband watches porn and jerks off? There is no way I could ever look as good as those porn stars and if I fee he prefers that to me there is just no hope! I will say again that I don't think he's denied me sex because he masturbates and it's only been a few times when I suspected he did, but I never allowed myself to fully believe it because I felt my husband wouldn't lie to me like that, but now I know he did.
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Hi Faith, my husband has denied me sex on a few occassions because of his masturbation although he denies it, but not too often that I am aware of. What I am most bothered by is the fact that he lied to me for 30 years about it. We made a pact that we would only masturbate with each other when we were young and it was the dumbest thing we could have ever done. But if he would have told me much sooner that he had been doing it alone and then lying about it, whenever I asked about it, it may have been a little easier for me to get over it. Why did he wait 30 years and then one day, out of the blue, unsolicited just blurt out that he's been masturbating all along. Did he tell me to hurt me or to make me feel insecure that I've been believing a lie for 30 years? I feel like such a fool. Does it ever make you feel insecure when your husband watches porn and jerks off? There is no way I could ever look as good as those porn stars and if I fee he prefers that to me there is just no hope! I will say again that I don't think he's denied me sex because he masturbates and it's only been a few times when I suspected he did, but I never allowed myself to fully believe it because I felt my husband wouldn't lie to me like that, but now I know he did.
March 27, 2016 - 8:56pmThis Comment
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