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Hello maryan and Susan I hope you can answer my question and give me something soothing words to relieve my fear.
On December 2016, I got engage with some unprotected physical contact with my boyfriend where we both were naked. However there was never a penetration or ejaculation inside my vagina as I'm still a virgin up until now. We were just rubbing and grinding. Although I was far from ovulation that time, I was so scared to death of pregnancy to the point of driving myself crazy about it. I took postinor asap. I've had 7 negative pregnancy test, 4 regular monthly periods and 2 ultrasound done on March and April which all shows empty uterus. I never have any sexual contact ever since then.

However On May 2017 , I thought I was getting over it and can finally accept the fact that I'm not pregnant. So my boyfriend and I had an outercourse where we both were fully clothed all the times. (3 layers including panties, leggings, and his thick shorts) meaning that there was never a penetration inside me. moreover, he did not ejaculate in his pants, on my pants or anywhere near my vagina. He only ejaculated on his stomach when I gave him hand jobs and we washed everything after. We also did not touch my private parts at all. I swear I thought I have gotten rid of my pregnancy scare that happened in December 2016. But when I came back home, suddenly all the anxiety, fear and panic attack came back to me all over again just like what I've been through in December 2016. Do you think I'm at risk of getting pregnant even if we only had outercourse? I don't think I can stay calm until I at least get 5 consecutive regular periods, at least 5 pregnancy test and another 2 ultrasound just to be dead sure that I'm not pregnant. Do you think all that is necessary for this time around? Truth is, I'm so so tired of spending too much over all these tests but I need to give myself some reassurance or else I would drive myself crazy thinking of any possibility of getting pregnant. Maryann and Susan , please help me as I'm only 22 years old and not ready for all this.

May 23, 2017 - 9:42am

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