This is still my favorite piece you've ever written ever. Still, re-reading it just raises more questions for this reader.
Can we ever call phone sex "sex?" or is it just mutual masturbation? Certainly there involves some "reaching out" to each other and touching/connecting with each other during "phone sex" but will two people ever be able to replace the magic that tactile, hand-to-hand contact gives us?
Questions of technology are also raised. In a world where the number of gadgets (no pun intended) increases everyday, does this lend us as lovers newfound possibilities for loving? Or just more distracting choices that get in the way of our instinctive need to screw.
Also, how are two people supposed to successfully phone-do each other if one of them is deaf and one of them is blind? Ok, this question is more philosophical than anything...
I guess my point is that phone-sex seems like an even harder thing to do for two people who had their in-person chemistry down pat than it is for two strangers who are each looking for a thrill.
I would be interested to hear more discussions on casual phone-sex versus committed phone-sex. I would also be interested to hear other readers' comments on phone-sex versus cyber-sex versus skype-sex.
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Dear Writer,
This is still my favorite piece you've ever written ever. Still, re-reading it just raises more questions for this reader.
Can we ever call phone sex "sex?" or is it just mutual masturbation? Certainly there involves some "reaching out" to each other and touching/connecting with each other during "phone sex" but will two people ever be able to replace the magic that tactile, hand-to-hand contact gives us?
Questions of technology are also raised. In a world where the number of gadgets (no pun intended) increases everyday, does this lend us as lovers newfound possibilities for loving? Or just more distracting choices that get in the way of our instinctive need to screw.
Also, how are two people supposed to successfully phone-do each other if one of them is deaf and one of them is blind? Ok, this question is more philosophical than anything...
I guess my point is that phone-sex seems like an even harder thing to do for two people who had their in-person chemistry down pat than it is for two strangers who are each looking for a thrill.
I would be interested to hear more discussions on casual phone-sex versus committed phone-sex. I would also be interested to hear other readers' comments on phone-sex versus cyber-sex versus skype-sex.
With real love on this end of the line,
November 11, 2010 - 11:17amReader
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