It sounds like this problem has a lot to do with stress. New marriage, new living arrangements, new job - or lack of job, new baby... all big life stressors. Maybe instead of focusing on just sex, focus more on cuddling and other things that are not sexual. I do think that you need to tell him how you feel about the masturbating though. He needs to know, wether or not he stops is his choice but he is your husband and should know when something hurts or bothers you.
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It sounds like this problem has a lot to do with stress. New marriage, new living arrangements, new job - or lack of job, new baby... all big life stressors. Maybe instead of focusing on just sex, focus more on cuddling and other things that are not sexual. I do think that you need to tell him how you feel about the masturbating though. He needs to know, wether or not he stops is his choice but he is your husband and should know when something hurts or bothers you.
November 30, 2010 - 12:49pmThis Comment
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