We are very sexually compatible.Our sex life was unbeliveable. We are very nsync. I really am a loss as to what is going on with him. Our sex life was great for years...& this came from complete left field...
We dont have children. He has a daughter from a prior relationship. He won't go talk to someone . He says there is no reason at all for that. He loves me etc.. When I say I feel like you don't want me & don't like me. H e professes his love to me...& gives me sad puppy eyes. Because we have a very strong bond & feels that I'm insulting him, when I express myself about this. I have thought of going on my own. However most counslers or therapist do like to talk with both parties. & he refuses... because he is adamant that there is no problem, & he keeps on saying that he believes that I think sex is evertyhing. I completly disagree. When you remove that from the whole picture it makes me think all sorts of things. I feel rejected, undesired sexually, etc.
I love him deeply, But I wouldnt cheat & I am not goingto stay in a sexless marrige. Most people have a point where they go through dy spell, or what have you. So I am just trying to decide- if I should leave now,,, I love him a lot- he's my everthing. But I'm a strong women, with or without him. But I really want him in my life.
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Hi Christine,
We are very sexually compatible.Our sex life was unbeliveable. We are very nsync. I really am a loss as to what is going on with him. Our sex life was great for years...& this came from complete left field...
We dont have children. He has a daughter from a prior relationship. He won't go talk to someone . He says there is no reason at all for that. He loves me etc.. When I say I feel like you don't want me & don't like me. H e professes his love to me...& gives me sad puppy eyes. Because we have a very strong bond & feels that I'm insulting him, when I express myself about this. I have thought of going on my own. However most counslers or therapist do like to talk with both parties. & he refuses... because he is adamant that there is no problem, & he keeps on saying that he believes that I think sex is evertyhing. I completly disagree. When you remove that from the whole picture it makes me think all sorts of things. I feel rejected, undesired sexually, etc.
I love him deeply, But I wouldnt cheat & I am not goingto stay in a sexless marrige. Most people have a point where they go through dy spell, or what have you. So I am just trying to decide- if I should leave now,,, I love him a lot- he's my everthing. But I'm a strong women, with or without him. But I really want him in my life.
December 19, 2010 - 4:29pmThis Comment
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