Your second-to-last sentence worries me: "hopefully HE will see me going out without him...". This is not about him. This is not about him seeing you prove to him that you are doing things.
This is about you. This is about you doing things for you, and if he leaves you, you will be OK. If he does not leave you, you will be the interesting and fun person he fell in love with. It is about you making sure you want him, not just desperately needing him.
Do you need help finding a counselor? It really does sound like you are really, really sad or depressed or something...always feeling miserable and wanting to fade away...there is help out there for you! Please call someone as soon as you can, ask someone to go with you if you need extra support. We can help find resources in your area if you need an extra hand, too.
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Your second-to-last sentence worries me: "hopefully HE will see me going out without him...". This is not about him. This is not about him seeing you prove to him that you are doing things.
This is about you. This is about you doing things for you, and if he leaves you, you will be OK. If he does not leave you, you will be the interesting and fun person he fell in love with. It is about you making sure you want him, not just desperately needing him.
Do you need help finding a counselor? It really does sound like you are really, really sad or depressed or something...always feeling miserable and wanting to fade away...there is help out there for you! Please call someone as soon as you can, ask someone to go with you if you need extra support. We can help find resources in your area if you need an extra hand, too.
December 24, 2010 - 12:38pmThis Comment
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