I think I will be okay finding a counsellor.
I have realised that I have a very obsessive personality,i have no balance,i either dont love someone and am very carefree and casual or i love someone and it turns into obsession,
hence the reason why when he does want space i get obsessed and start to panic and i cling to him,i think it stems from a fear of losing him but its like a vicious circle cos by clinging to him and portraying myself the way i do,I am pushing him away anyway.
I dont understand why i can't love normally, i dont understand where this paranoia and obsession has come from, this fear of losing him. hopefully it can be easily treated though cos i know it will ruin my life if i continue.
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I think I will be okay finding a counsellor.
December 26, 2010 - 4:10amI have realised that I have a very obsessive personality,i have no balance,i either dont love someone and am very carefree and casual or i love someone and it turns into obsession,
hence the reason why when he does want space i get obsessed and start to panic and i cling to him,i think it stems from a fear of losing him but its like a vicious circle cos by clinging to him and portraying myself the way i do,I am pushing him away anyway.
I dont understand why i can't love normally, i dont understand where this paranoia and obsession has come from, this fear of losing him. hopefully it can be easily treated though cos i know it will ruin my life if i continue.
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