My personal opinion is that if she is trying to decide if she is ready to have sex with this guy, then she probably isn't. He may still be the right one for her but I believe that she will know it with certainty when the time is right. It sounds as though she is not only concerned about the consequences of having a sexual relationship but maybe questioning his devotion to her. Ask her how it would effect her if she does sleep with him and he stops seeing her. She should only be willing to share herself with another person if she believes that she will have no regrets regardless of which direction the relationship goes.
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My personal opinion is that if she is trying to decide if she is ready to have sex with this guy, then she probably isn't. He may still be the right one for her but I believe that she will know it with certainty when the time is right. It sounds as though she is not only concerned about the consequences of having a sexual relationship but maybe questioning his devotion to her. Ask her how it would effect her if she does sleep with him and he stops seeing her. She should only be willing to share herself with another person if she believes that she will have no regrets regardless of which direction the relationship goes.
January 10, 2011 - 8:58pmThis Comment
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