You have a lot of different things going on...let's see if we can address each one!
1. You haven't had a period since September, and this is January? When was your last menstrual period? How old are you--have you talked with a doctor yet?
2. Irregular periods are different than the absence of a period. If you miss a period for three consecutive months, this warrants a call to your doctor and a medical exam.
3. Your period is back, and it is a heavy flow. When did your period start? Are you having any pain, and are you soaking through a tampon or pad every hour (this would indicate too much of a heavy flow).
About your question regarding being a virgin. Most people define "virgin" as someone who has not had penile-to-vagina intercourse. If you are sexually active, and the guy is putting his finger inside your vagina, most people would still consider this as being a virgin.
If you are bleeding after any sexual activity and it is not your period, you may need to communicate with your partner that the sexual play is too rough. Heavy bleeding after being fingered would not be normal, and it sounds like the bleeding is related to a period and not being fingered; it may a coincidence that your period started after being fingered.
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You have a lot of different things going on...let's see if we can address each one!
1. You haven't had a period since September, and this is January? When was your last menstrual period? How old are you--have you talked with a doctor yet?
2. Irregular periods are different than the absence of a period. If you miss a period for three consecutive months, this warrants a call to your doctor and a medical exam.
3. Your period is back, and it is a heavy flow. When did your period start? Are you having any pain, and are you soaking through a tampon or pad every hour (this would indicate too much of a heavy flow).
About your question regarding being a virgin. Most people define "virgin" as someone who has not had penile-to-vagina intercourse. If you are sexually active, and the guy is putting his finger inside your vagina, most people would still consider this as being a virgin.
If you are bleeding after any sexual activity and it is not your period, you may need to communicate with your partner that the sexual play is too rough. Heavy bleeding after being fingered would not be normal, and it sounds like the bleeding is related to a period and not being fingered; it may a coincidence that your period started after being fingered.
Does this answer all of your questions?
January 20, 2011 - 10:10amThis Comment
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