I'm sorry to hear that you and your boyfriend are not on the same page as far as sex goes. Unfortunately, you can't "make" someone have sex with you or want to have sex with you. It sounds like your boyfriend may have some deep-rooted issues with women that he may need to work on first. Has he ever been in therapy for this? Or is it something new?
For now, you can stand by his side if he decides to get some help for those "dirty" thoughts he feels about you when you have sex or if he is unwilling to admit that anything is wrong you may have to reconsider your relationship and where it is going unless this is something you are willing to live with (or without).
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Cobaltsea,
I'm sorry to hear that you and your boyfriend are not on the same page as far as sex goes. Unfortunately, you can't "make" someone have sex with you or want to have sex with you. It sounds like your boyfriend may have some deep-rooted issues with women that he may need to work on first. Has he ever been in therapy for this? Or is it something new?
For now, you can stand by his side if he decides to get some help for those "dirty" thoughts he feels about you when you have sex or if he is unwilling to admit that anything is wrong you may have to reconsider your relationship and where it is going unless this is something you are willing to live with (or without).
Best Wishes!
February 2, 2011 - 6:10amThis Comment
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