I can understand where he is coming from but if this is a healthy weight for you, then be proud. There's no shame in any weight as long as it is healthy for you and what you have done is a great accomplishment. The "honesty" could be what he thinks is perfection now because of his "people pleasing" personality. Perfection changes as people grow and evolve, and maybe when he's better he won't care about it or the way either of you will be viewed.
You are beautiful for who you are and that you care and have so much love to give. Don't let this get you down.
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Dear DWI0307,
I can understand where he is coming from but if this is a healthy weight for you, then be proud. There's no shame in any weight as long as it is healthy for you and what you have done is a great accomplishment. The "honesty" could be what he thinks is perfection now because of his "people pleasing" personality. Perfection changes as people grow and evolve, and maybe when he's better he won't care about it or the way either of you will be viewed.
You are beautiful for who you are and that you care and have so much love to give. Don't let this get you down.
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February 7, 2011 - 10:52amAnonymouse
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