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It may be best to stay focused on the positive aspects of your relationship, and the qualities you enjoy and appreciate about one another. Talk about the future and all the wonderful things you'd like to do with each other, rather than discussing previous encounters and issues from the past. I too was abused as a child for many years, and discussing it with boyfriends, only made them uncomfortable and dredged up painful memories - which interfered with personal relationships and my self-esteem. If he has a problem trusting you, perhaps he may not trust himself and is projecting it onto you. The best thing you can do is be honest and open, without divulging every little detail. Be obvious in your interactions, especially in front of others, that he is the one you love and choose to be with – empower him with love, appreciation and affection. Good luck to you!

April 13, 2011 - 2:20pm

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