I am 24. My husband and I have been married for 3 years and we have a 3 year old daughter together. He used to beat me when he got mad. I let it happen for 4 months and I finally had the nerve to leave. After 3 months after I left I met a guy. He was nice and helpful and I was at a very low time in my life. We talked and hung out. My in laws jumped on that so fast and said the worst. Honestly, we hooked up once. And I still torture myself everyday for it. After 6 months of being separated my husband and I decided to give it a try again even with him knowing about the other guy. He says he loves me and would do anything for me. I cannot do anything I enjoyed. I am not allowed to have fun. I get that he doesn't trust me. But what about what he did? Once during our separation he came by drunk with 2 of his friends. Our daughter and I had fallen asleep on the couch watching TV. He ripped my underwear off and asked his friends who wanted to go first. He punched me so much his friends had to pry him off. All in front of our child. I still went back. I'm still trying to make things worse. He quit physically abusing me. But now he uses words. Calls me names. Tells me to leave. I'm so lost idk what to do anymore.
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I am 24. My husband and I have been married for 3 years and we have a 3 year old daughter together. He used to beat me when he got mad. I let it happen for 4 months and I finally had the nerve to leave. After 3 months after I left I met a guy. He was nice and helpful and I was at a very low time in my life. We talked and hung out. My in laws jumped on that so fast and said the worst. Honestly, we hooked up once. And I still torture myself everyday for it. After 6 months of being separated my husband and I decided to give it a try again even with him knowing about the other guy. He says he loves me and would do anything for me. I cannot do anything I enjoyed. I am not allowed to have fun. I get that he doesn't trust me. But what about what he did? Once during our separation he came by drunk with 2 of his friends. Our daughter and I had fallen asleep on the couch watching TV. He ripped my underwear off and asked his friends who wanted to go first. He punched me so much his friends had to pry him off. All in front of our child. I still went back. I'm still trying to make things worse. He quit physically abusing me. But now he uses words. Calls me names. Tells me to leave. I'm so lost idk what to do anymore.
March 25, 2015 - 11:41pmThis Comment
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