I am deeply sorry that you are going through this in your life. If you think that by staying with this man you are doing your children a favor you are are in the wrong path. I grew up with my father verbally abusing my mother I will tell you something that might help you encourage you to pack you stuff and leave. You are doing a great harm to your children. When they get older they will either marry an abuser or become one. Please seek help a person who abuse you verbally doesn't love you or values you in any way. Ask your self a question do you really deserve this? Do you think that your children deserve this type of infancy life? I don't know what exactly your situation is and why your are disable are you completely disabled or partially? Maybe if you are partially disable you can find a partime. Even though my father apologize to me when he was devastated when my mom decided to file for divorce the harm that was done to me is irreversible even though I did forgive him. My mom didn't want to leave because of me and trust me if she had left while I was still a kid she would have done both a favor. Thanks to her decision of not leaving the marriage before I am the person I am today. I don't believe that love actually exist it fades away with the years that's one . Two is no matter how many years you are married for you will never know who your partner is, it takes a lifetime to know somebody that most like you will never know. there are in the world more abusers than normal people. The chances of meeting someone kind and loving are very odd. I had the greatest luck of meeting two men who I considered to be the best men I have ever met and that is my grandfathers from both side. I have never ever seen them upset in my life not disrespect their wife. Three thanks to the childhood I lived I refuse to have children, I have decided to end this generation without any children what so ever. I can't find a man I can trust that I can have children with I don't think I will be so lucky to be able to find those that are the 1%. I rather save my self from disappointment than to experience being a mother. and my past has made reflect about not having kids is the best choice I can make for myself after seeing the lives of some friends and the hardship they went through I'm ok without having kids. You'll be surprise how many people today think like this. It's really terrifying this that you have said and you are so young. I am in my 30's already and I still maintain the same position about not having kids. Kids deserve to live in a happy environment so that they grow strong and healthy without any problems what so ever. I am very sorry if sound very pessimistic with my decisions and thoughts but this is what I have decided and we become and form ourselves based on our experiences. That's why I suggest you to look for a solution donnot stay in this marriage you will ruin your children leave now that they are young they need to be in a better environment. What examples are they getting. Do NOT!listen to him threatening you to remove the custody. An abuser will tell you this so that you don't pack and leave him. Listen to your inner voice you donnot want to stay and you know this is wrong and unhealthy find profesional help if you have to help you leave. Do it for your children at the end they will thank you for leaving. The sooner the better.
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I am deeply sorry that you are going through this in your life. If you think that by staying with this man you are doing your children a favor you are are in the wrong path. I grew up with my father verbally abusing my mother I will tell you something that might help you encourage you to pack you stuff and leave. You are doing a great harm to your children. When they get older they will either marry an abuser or become one. Please seek help a person who abuse you verbally doesn't love you or values you in any way. Ask your self a question do you really deserve this? Do you think that your children deserve this type of infancy life? I don't know what exactly your situation is and why your are disable are you completely disabled or partially? Maybe if you are partially disable you can find a partime. Even though my father apologize to me when he was devastated when my mom decided to file for divorce the harm that was done to me is irreversible even though I did forgive him. My mom didn't want to leave because of me and trust me if she had left while I was still a kid she would have done both a favor. Thanks to her decision of not leaving the marriage before I am the person I am today. I don't believe that love actually exist it fades away with the years that's one . Two is no matter how many years you are married for you will never know who your partner is, it takes a lifetime to know somebody that most like you will never know. there are in the world more abusers than normal people. The chances of meeting someone kind and loving are very odd. I had the greatest luck of meeting two men who I considered to be the best men I have ever met and that is my grandfathers from both side. I have never ever seen them upset in my life not disrespect their wife. Three thanks to the childhood I lived I refuse to have children, I have decided to end this generation without any children what so ever. I can't find a man I can trust that I can have children with I don't think I will be so lucky to be able to find those that are the 1%. I rather save my self from disappointment than to experience being a mother. and my past has made reflect about not having kids is the best choice I can make for myself after seeing the lives of some friends and the hardship they went through I'm ok without having kids. You'll be surprise how many people today think like this. It's really terrifying this that you have said and you are so young. I am in my 30's already and I still maintain the same position about not having kids. Kids deserve to live in a happy environment so that they grow strong and healthy without any problems what so ever. I am very sorry if sound very pessimistic with my decisions and thoughts but this is what I have decided and we become and form ourselves based on our experiences. That's why I suggest you to look for a solution donnot stay in this marriage you will ruin your children leave now that they are young they need to be in a better environment. What examples are they getting. Do NOT!listen to him threatening you to remove the custody. An abuser will tell you this so that you don't pack and leave him. Listen to your inner voice you donnot want to stay and you know this is wrong and unhealthy find profesional help if you have to help you leave. Do it for your children at the end they will thank you for leaving. The sooner the better.
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