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I've only been married a little over 2 years and I just filed for divorce from my abusive husband. I thought it was smarter for me to get out sooner than later . Once I separated from him I realized more than ever how I had been trapped and isolated from family & friends and I never want to live like that again . The humiliation I suffered from him kicking me out of the house and forcing me to move back in with my mother 3 times in 2 years all because he wasn't getting his way so this was punishment. All the break up games just to " test " my love for him . All the never accepting responsibility for his actions because his actions were my fault . I really think he hated my confidence in myself because he didn't have any for himself . All the constant need for reassurance.... I'm exhausted!!!! We tried counseling but it didn't help . His latest break up game right before Christmas where he helped to pack me up and moved me to my moms was it for me . Of course 2 days later he wanted me to come back but that was the LAST time I will allow him to hurt & humiliate me just to stroke his ego . I know I'm a good person and I was a great wife to him and I didn't deserve any of that . He's learning the hard way right now . I love him but I love ME more ! I hope you ladies find the courage to get out . You deserve better