Hi Tygalilie,
I am sorry that you are having these feelings but they are common feelings for some people. Some individual s rely their love and affection on sexual pleasures while others may be more geared to an emotional side. Perhaps your boyfriend is attached to you in a more emotional side rather than sexually and that’s okay if you can learn to understand that. You talked to him already and he said his ex-wife complained about his lack of sex also so this is something that has been going on for a while. You must come to an agreement between the both of you to reach an understanding or leave each other. You should not feel lacking and neither should he…relationships are always about compromise. Perhaps you two can find one.
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Hi Tygalilie,
I am sorry that you are having these feelings but they are common feelings for some people. Some individual s rely their love and affection on sexual pleasures while others may be more geared to an emotional side. Perhaps your boyfriend is attached to you in a more emotional side rather than sexually and that’s okay if you can learn to understand that. You talked to him already and he said his ex-wife complained about his lack of sex also so this is something that has been going on for a while. You must come to an agreement between the both of you to reach an understanding or leave each other. You should not feel lacking and neither should he…relationships are always about compromise. Perhaps you two can find one.
Good luck,
May 14, 2011 - 10:46amMissie
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