Hi,
Have you talked with your boyfriend about this problem? I can understand that the change in his show of affection toward you and choosing to sleep on the couch would raise the suspicion of cheating. But, before you jump to conclusions, unless of course, you have concrete evidence of infidelity, try having an open and honest conversation with him. Try to start the conversation at a time that is good for both of you. By this, I mean when there are no distractions (turn off the TV), there is time(not before heading out for work or just before going to bed( and most importantly and probably the hardest, try to keep your emotions in check. Becoming emotional or confrontational will be counter-productive. Good luck in getting to the root of the issue.
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Hi,
May 19, 2011 - 5:36pmHave you talked with your boyfriend about this problem? I can understand that the change in his show of affection toward you and choosing to sleep on the couch would raise the suspicion of cheating. But, before you jump to conclusions, unless of course, you have concrete evidence of infidelity, try having an open and honest conversation with him. Try to start the conversation at a time that is good for both of you. By this, I mean when there are no distractions (turn off the TV), there is time(not before heading out for work or just before going to bed( and most importantly and probably the hardest, try to keep your emotions in check. Becoming emotional or confrontational will be counter-productive. Good luck in getting to the root of the issue.
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